but over the years me and my some female friends have observed some more interesting facts.
Show me a sucessful women careerwise and I point u either she is single,widow or divorcee or may be playing second fiddle to her husband.
The truth is still women's worth is measured by the amount of household work she does,how good mother she is,how submissive wife is she? or how much of a patient daughter in law she is.
She has to be educated but she cannot be more knowledgable than her family atleast she has to pretend that.
Her I.Q. LEVEL should not be more than the men she is surrounded by OR she will hurt their ego even if it is she should not express it.
She can pursue her job,her hobbies but family should always be her first priority.Nothing can come in between that not even her aspirations,wishes likes,dislikes...........
She should be at the service of her in-laws whenever asked for.
She cannot assert her rights,but should be well aware of her duties and perform them day in and day out without expecting any kind word or deed in return.
At any time of day or night she cannot afford to be tired or sick.
She should be mentally prepared to be taken for granted always.
SHE SHOULD BE AN OBEDIENT DAUGHTER,PROTECTIVE SISTER,UNDERSTANDING LOVER,CARING WIFE,SILENT DAUGHTER IN LAW ,HARDWORKING EMPLOYEE...........
AND YES
LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST
SHE SHOULD CEASE TO BE A HUMANBEING
बहुत पहले एक कवि ने कहा था " अबला जीवन हाय तुम्हारी यही कहानी ,आँचल में है दूध आँखों में पानी " स्त्री स्वातंत्र्य के लिये किये जा रहे तमाम आन्दोलन , स्त्री मुक्ति की चेतना और आधुनिकता की तमाम हलचल के बावज़ूद अभी भी स्थितियाँ बदली नहीं हैं । इसलिये कि समाज के नियम पुरुषों द्वारा ही बनाये गये है और पुरुष ही उसे संचालित करते है । हम अभी भी स्त्रियों को लेकर अपनी सामंती सोच न बदलने के लिये अभिशप्त हैं । और अपने आप को आधुनिक कहने के बावज़ूद दोहरे माप दंडों मे जी रहे हैं । इसीलिये एक ओर तो हम स्त्री के देवी रूप की पूजा करते हैं उसे शक्ति का प्रतीक मानते है और दूसरी ओर उसे पैर की जूती से भी कमतर समझते हैं । जब तक यह आधी दुनिया स्वतंत्र नहीं है हम भी स्वतंत्र नहीं है ।
ReplyDeletebeautiful post . dil bahut khush ho gaya aapka blog par likhi post ko padhakar . keep writing
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