These parents are silently and softly and very lovingly destroying their very own creations by stuffing them with excess love , junk food, clothes , money , toys, medicines , luxuries and other unnecessary facilities.
Such parents firmly believe in maxim "spare the rod and spoil the child"
Like Jinny they will fulfill their little Alladin's every whim and fancy,the results being very harmful to the child's physical and mental wellbeing.
Their infant(i am using the word in true sense) never learns to take "no" for an answer.
He is not ready to compromise or adjust to varying situations in life.
He becomes selfish and selfcentered.
He doesn't realise how much efforts are taken to satisfy his never ending demands
He assumes his every wish is his birthright that is to be fulfilled by his ever giving parents but he is failed to realise the same about his duties?
He is neither sympathetic nor empathetic towards others problems(including his parents) cause he is well shielded by the minutest inconviniences by his bearers and hence has never experienced them first hand.
Even a sapling to grow in a strong tree needs to face the sun and fight the winds , rains hence the parents also should give their children free hand to face and fight some odds if they aspire their little sweethearts to become responsible future adults.
STATUTORY WARNING: YOUR TOO MUCH LOVE TURNS THEM BLIND TO A BEAUTIFUL AND A HEALTHY LIFE THEY TRULY DESERVE .
beautiful post good i like it so much .
ReplyDeleteVery True..
ReplyDeleteI have seen such families..
But there is only one thought behind this ..I think why I shouldn't give my loved one something which I never got as a child...It's not a mistake ....
But it needs to be balanced